What is your opinion on guys who only go out with women who have cocks? Because recently I have really become aware that my Penis size is not up to standard to say the least. Don’t get me wrong I love women with Virginas but I feel like I will never able to please them. I don’t consider myself a feminine guy but I think I’m destined to be a bottom in a relationship. I’ve never been with a trans women but when ever I seek dating advice they seem to be anti guys who actually seek them.

I mean it is fine by me, as long as you aren’t only in it for the sex, or treat trans women as a fantasy first, person second. Some trans women will get turned off by people exclusively into trans women though. It can make them feel like they are different from other women, so even though it comes from a positive place, it can have a negative connotation in their mind.

I think in your case however, they would be right to feel so. You DO think of them differently than other women, and make a lot of assumptions about who they are and what they are into. 

In my experience trans women aren’t much more likely to be into topping than any other women. Just because you have a penis it doesn’t automatically mean you are into sticking into someone’s butt. A large portion of trans women don’t even feel comfortable having their penis touched. The trans women that do top, mostly top other women.

I know you can find a lot of porn of trans women fucking guys in the ass, but not even all of those girls are into it, some just do it for the money. 

You are looking for a small subset of an already tiny portion of the population, even if you have no standards in the beauty department, it would still be a really hard find. 

If it seems like trans women aren’t into you because you are exclusively into them, then maybe you missed the point. Maybe they don’t like you because you are only into them to fulfill a fantasy, not because of their personality or anything else beyond them having a penis.

And also, of the guys I slept with, it was the guy with the smallest penis who was best at sex. Size and look of genitalia is pretty fucking far down the list of priorities when I choose partners, and it sucks when someone comes at you with THAT as their number one priority.